Some OSRS or video games in between watching reality tv

Due to getting older and putting myself on a rigid schedule, there really isn't much time for friendships or hobbies. Work, go home, make dinner, and watch an hour of television then sleep and repeat. Weekends here now it's time to go grocery shopping and tidy the house before the cycle repeats.

I'm considering posting here since I've realized it was something that my wife and I had to go through earlier this year.

We found that as we entered our twenties and began raising our two-year-old son, we work 40+ hours a week and are meticulous with our savings and savings, we had a similar schedule to that which you've described. Our son is fantastic but they are tiring... I'm in my 20s , but it feels like the 30s for a while when I feel as if it's not being honest with me! It was difficult for me to get the motivation to be able to focus on anything more than looking after our family and the house after we finish our tasks by the end the day.

So it was actually fine by us . We'd unwind and relax I'd squeeze in some OSRS or video games in between watching reality tv or girly shows I didn't find as interesting, or we alternated or even made dinner together and enjoyed playing with our young son. We also cleaned up the house after he tear the place up, and then watch tv and films together.. stuff like that.

I'm not here to say it was all bad as it's not, but what we found we were missing was "us time". Spending more time with babysitters or dropping off my son with grandma and grandpa , or our extended families , so we could go out and enjoy each other more.

My wife was becoming unhappy due to not being able to spend time together prior to that and discovered she was craving the attraction, love and enjoyment we had in our early 20s- something that was missing in a post-pandemic era in which we couldn't visit friends or have dates as we did back in the day. I was becoming bored myself as well, and with the same issues you say, the ending game grinds of OSRS were a constant game. Playing for at least an hour every day, and that meant continuous dedication to raiding that could be put off at the flick of a penny... it was fun while it lasted. It became boring than enjoyable And it's not that I've never shared my tales of disappointment after playing through hundreds and thousands of boss killings, raids, gauntlets... LOL.

If your wife is as similar to mine, might be somewhat unhappy, but might not be keen on being in control. She may not be happy to get your attention and affection during those times, and she could become withdrawn as a result of it.

My wife informed me that she didn't want to "seem like a bitch"(those weren't nice words from her..) and told me she'd prefer that I not participate in the game, because she didn't want me to believe that I shouldn't be able to have "me-time" also. Did you talk to her regarding your thoughts and you're now considering divorce due to the way she's been? Have you tried to explain that you're feeling unvalidated about your own views and wishes to take some time for yourself to think about your desires and needs in life and to feel more secure in your interests?

Not that you should reconsider... but when my wife and i spent more time with each other during those moments and started taking conscious steps to spend more time together, and to have some emotional conversations about what we truly wanted from our long, tiring days and the best way to fit into our schedules during the weekboth of us realized we needed to spend much less "apart". The breaking of the patterns and molds we've developed over the course of the last year or so, really has given new life to our relationship.

All this said I'm still playing OSRS... however, I'm playing just the equivalent of a couple of hours per week for the past few months. I've had enough playing the game and as I've said that it was enjoyable when it was on. But those grinds in the final game. phew. Mentally draining. I find some afk skilling or agility exercise throughout my work hours or when we watch an episode together. It's all I need to do these days!

No relationship's the same and you're more knowledgeable than me or any other person on Reddit what is the best for your relationship. But amongst a sea of people who support you and your decision to split.. I guess I just wanted to add a new perspective because your wife could be in a difficult spot even without telling you and she might need some extra love, too regardless of the decision you make.

It's up to you to decide what's best for you. If it's divorce, it's your decision. It's not necessary to be ashamed of having 10 minutes or so for yourself.

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